I wasn’t going to write this, but I changed my mind (obviously)!  I went to court today, and we were able to combine todays hearing with the one that was scheduled for next Wednesday!  That is nice!  I don’t have to go back! Yay!  So as of today, I am officially divorced!  I won’t get my name change for 14 more days.  I was a little dissappointed about that, but I’ve had this name for 21 years (almost 22), so I guess I can live with it for 2 more weeks!  Once my name is changed, I will then petition the court to change Kay’s name as well!

The hearing itself was productive and went well!  I got full custody of my children, and that was the most important thing!  I’m very grateful for that!  I can stay in my current house until June 30, but I intend to move as soon as school is out!

This is all SO weird to me!  A year ago, I thought all was well!  I really truly honestly thought we were happy!  I thought our marriage was special and that it would last forever!  When my ex left, I was in complete and utter shock!  But over the past 10 months, I have been able to see that I was so wrong!  The person I thought I was married to doesn’t exist at all!

Well enough of my drama!  I want to say THANK YOU VERY MUCH to everyone who has helped talk me through this, been my friend, even family, and most of all to my Kay!  She has been a rock when I needed her to be and that is a lot for a 15 year old girl!  I was truly blessed with 3 amazing children that I love very much, and will continue to raise with my whole being!  Again, I thank you Buzznet!